Lab was interesting. In the class we did a work sheet after she lectured a bit. I was 30 minutes late. When I came in they were watching a video about a woman that lost her child after her child went into surgery and the wall that was up when she wanted to get information about how it happened. She actually influenced change in policy and procedure. I missed most of the video but it is available online. Then one half of the class went to the skills lab while the other half stayed in the class. I wondered what was taking them so long up there. We also only received a 10 minute break. I am happy that I was late. I almost did not go because I was tired, from studying and doing my hair, until 5 am. Okay, so she is about to give us another sheet then finally the first group comes down. Then I go up with the other group. When we get there we see fake medication bingo cards are out. They call the med cart the COW. I think it was cart on wheels. We partner up. I don't get the annoying chick. We get a patient and their medication. Then we get the drug dictionary and we have to get information about the drug to tell the patient, but it ended up being the class. I got partnered up with my friend from the class. We work good. I was able to absorb the information pretty good. I actually love the hands on training. I am not sure how I will feel if I pass and move on to the next level, which is clinicals. We ran out of time and we were unable to complete our practice fully. We were rushed. We may be able to do more next week. I really wanted to use the COW. Then class was over. By the way my medication was ferrous sulfate tablet, it is basically iron. I still remember the side effects and uses. Like I said it was cool. I am starting to think that lab is my favorite day. I did not want to miss the lab because I would have to make it up. I would rather be late and get the evil eye when I get there, then have to make it up.
Today I had the Prof. that I had on the first day. She basically just reads from the book and the power point presentations. I was so tired. I fell asleep for the first half of the class. I tried to stay awake but I went to bed late that night. We were covering Medication Administration. Thankfully my years at my previous job helped. Although I fell asleep I did not miss much. She made a note of us taking notes, but I was writing a letter to my fiance. It is just that she was not saying anything that I could not read on my own. The video that they showed in class, is available online. Besides the actual skills part I feel like I could take this course online. Attendance is mandatory so I have no choice but to sit through the 4 hour class. I see why some people use to just come in for test. I know that it made some Prof. feel obsolete but, there are some classes that you can do on your own. It is not for everyone and I hate online classes but this could be done online. The lab and skills is necessary, I will admit that. I did not write any notes for the previous lectures and I did pretty good. I did write notes, but it was my own from reading the book. It was not from the lectures. I could not finish because I should have started sooner, which is why I received an 84 or 86 instead of a 90 ( I forgot). She did tell us that if we think that we can work an overnight shift and come to clinicals we are mistaken. She said anyone that comes in and looks tires, will be told to leave. That we will not work on people if we are not 100 percent alert. I understand that. She also told us that we don't need to study everything, which is good because some of these chapters are over 50 pages of small print.
I know that I am behind, I apologize about that. We had this new Prof come in. She was African. I did not know what to make of her because it was my first time seeing her. My friend in the class had not expected much of her. Usually someone comes in and they basically read from the book, which is a bit boring. I like when they tell stories about experiences that they have at work. Truth is sometimes I feel like I can stay at home and read on my own time. The thing is the book explains things pretty clearly, I sometimes fall asleep. I started reducing my coffee intake and it has left me depleted. My doctor suggested. I was overdoing it. I drank some today. I will do most of the blogs. Ok so she comes in and I expect status quo. She comes in and she does not read from the book. She goes into details and breaks it down in a much more understandable way. I actually feel the need to write down notes. She was a bit abrasive to some, but I loved her teaching approach. If she was my Prof. Every time that I went to class, I would be thrilled. She does not like breaks though. Usually we get a 40 minute break. She could not believe that. She gave us a ten minute bathroom break and then a 30 min lunch break. She could teach the whole time. I really do enjoy the class. These chapters are longer. I am so behind but I plan to catch up. The other test seem to follow the questions in the study guide and the ones at the end of the chapter. I have my own study technique. I will do better when I study harder, but I do have a life. I am able to absorb the information because I love it. I am scared of sick people but I love caring for people, especially the elderly. I don't want to work with children because I am able to separate my feelings and work. I do not think that I could do that when dealing with children that may be dying. I don't think that I could handle that emotionally so I think that I will avoid that field. She was also funny, she also took stupid questions in stride. People say that there are no stupid questions, there are, I've heard them.
Things are getting so much better. I am still very jealous and insecure, but I am able to know that she is mine and that she loves me. We even were able to talk about her ex that she is still friends with and I did not feel anything about it. Sometimes when I think about us being apart for so long tears come to my eyes because I want her here with me and our love just seems to grow as time goes on. We are so comfortable with each other. I can not find any fault in her. She says that she does not have any complaints with me but that scares me. I don't know if I can live up to her expectations. I just want to make her so happy. She cares about me so much and is there for me when I need her. I would marry her today if I could. I know some people that love their significant other but their significant other does not treat them like they love them. I wish that they would just leave. I've been there, crazy about someone who completely disregards all of your feelings. It is not worth it to be with someone that does not love you back. Forget all the things that you have been through. Some people feel like they owe the other person. If someone did something for you then they did it out of the kindness of their heart. There is no reason to hold on to what you think that you owe someone. Be with someone that will make you happy, with someone who cares about your happiness. There are times that others will not understand why you do something for someone that you love, but it is not for others to understand, it is for you and the person that you are with. I really think that people are selling themselves short when they are with someone because they love them, but are not happy for reasons that are not acceptable. I love my fiance and the only reason that I am so insecure is because I fear losing her. A fear that is completely unfounded. I really try not to think of how much I love her because I just cry, she is just so beautiful inside and out. She is my partner. She is the person that I was meant to meet, maybe I needed to be in the messes I was in to fully appreciate her. I appreciate her so much. She only ask me for respect, honesty, love, and understanding. I can give her that and so much more. I don't think that I will write much more in this column, because at this point it is pretty much a lovey dovey thing. People seem to hate things like that. I don't listen to much negativity because I keep people out of my relationship. They know that she is overseas and all that but after a few negative comments, I decided that privacy was essential. They don't understand and that is fine. Some people say why not find someone who lives here. I have not found someone here that I can feel compatible with. There is no one here in this country that I want. There are some things that you accept because of convenience, but love is not something I am going to short change myself on.
I have planned to diet for some time now and it has not panned out, quite as I had hoped for. I have short term goals and long term goals. I also need to go to the gym, I have full access to two. My membership is almost done at one. I moved so it is not as easy to go, not that it really mattered I barely went. I have access to the Y near my school and to the gym at the school. It is not at the campus that I go to but I could easily go to it. I am going to see if I can go to the gym at the Y in my town. I like that gym. I am decreasing what I eat but it is not enough. I have to do a lot more, in order to get healthy. I also wan to look hottt. I am getting my money for food in a week in a half and I plan to use the money wisely. I intend to count calories and eat foods that are going to be real fuel for my body. I think this time that I will really do it. I just don't want to buy new clothes. I will make the ones I have work for me. I don't even want to buy too many school uniform clothes in case I need to get a smaller size later. I don't like looking sloppy for school. Ok so here are my short term goals.
Short Term Goal
Lose 20 pound. It will get me out of the 200s which will be a milestone for me. I gained so much weight after having my daughter.
Long Term Goal
To lose at lest 15-20 pound a month and eventually stop when I weigh between 120-130. I could be thinner but I am not one for being skinny. I like curves and having enough strength not to thrown around if I am in danger. Weekly I will put down my menu and my weight loss.
My current weight is 215 pounds Next Monday I will do my weigh in and I hope to lose 5 or 6 pounds. I weigh a lot so in the beginning I think I will lose a lot. My focus body parts are my arms and stomach. I also plan to use a lot of cocoa butter to make my skin look better and drink beau coup water. I already like water but I also drink way too many sugared beverages.
Things are getting much better. Me and her had a nice talk today. We were able to talk about a lot of things that have been troubling me and it has helped me to feel more confident in our relationship. I am still very jealous, but that will maybe go away when we are together. She does get bored like I do and I hope that I don't bore her. She does not like to see me so exposed. She wants there to be something left to the imagination. I am a person that likes to get comfortable in just some boy shorts or short shorts. I am going to be dressed and not give her any teasers from now on. I tend to dress provocatively when I go out, but I will keep it slightly mysterious. This is a big change. She has not asked me to, but I will put myself on a very low calorie diet in an attempt to be thinner by the time we meet. It may be in December but the way that the ticket prices are we would only be able to spend a week together anyway so I don't think it matters if I do get the tickets in January when they will be much cheaper. I have decided to ask her to give me more time. I hope that she will agree to it. If she comes in March it is not a tourist season and the flights will be much cheaper and I can save more money for her to have a good time. I think that she will think that I am changing my mind, I hope that she realizes that I am doing it because it will benefit us. I will not be able to do it in December and I will not have enough money by January. It is tourist season. I will have money for the plane ticket but that will be all and it is the same time that I will have finals. I will barely be able to give her much attention the test is cumulative. I also want to get fit. I want her to see me and say wow. I am cute but I have to lose this weight. I have seen it done and I did it before and it has stayed off. I am at 215. I have been this weight for over 6 months now and I eat more than I should. I plan to start the new diet on Monday. Hopefully I will no longer have an insecurities blog. I will keep it until I do lose all of the weight that I want to because, it is an insecurity that I have. I think once a week I write about what I have eaten for the week, any exercises, and the weight gained or loss. That may be a boring blog and one that has been done to death but I will find it to be refreshing. I threw away all my journals or diaries, whatever people refer to them as. I bought another one and plan to start writing in it. Sometimes when I type I feel like I am playing a musical instrument. My mind just put the words out here and it feels amazing and like I am letting weight of. It is not physical weight but mental turmoil.
I can't talk to my friends about this. I can't even talk to my girl about this. I had a dream one night a few weeks ago that scared me. I dreamt that I was about to meet my girl. The love of my life, for the first time. I dreamt that for some reason I did a background check on her. Right before I was to meet her someone an old school mate, told me that it was a bad idea. She told me I have some information on your new girlfriend. She was a serious criminal and my old school mate who is not my friend in real life, said you should always check on people before you meet them. I was scared that I almost let her into my house around my child and that I did not even really know her. Everything that she told me was a lie. I never found out in my dream why she lied to me or what it was that she was hiding. I woke up and it bothered me for a few days. I eventually told her about my dream. She said something to me, but I really don't remember. I had this gut feeling that something was wrong. I love her and I swore that I would love her no matter what. She seems like a good person. I want to talk to her about these things but she does not want to open up to me. She has this wall up and I don't know why she does not trust me. I know that I have not told her everything about me, but I don't think that they are that serious. It is stuff that I find to be embarrassing, I don't know if that is why she is keeping things from me. I don't know what is going on. I love her so much. I am willing to make this work but I want to know more about her. I want her to let me in. Ok so I go to her fb page, something that I hate doing. I am even going on a 600 calorie diet to be healthier and also to look like the women that she keeps on adding to her friend list. I get updates all the time about what my friends are doing. I get an update about her befriending another woman. I did not get to see what she looked like or catch the name. So I go to her page and she has so many women as friends and then I go into her about section. I see that she has her relationship status as single. That hurt, I tried to tell myself that the reason that she had it that way was because she did not want people to know about her being gay. But I know that it's pure none sense. I know so many people that put married as a status just to have people leave them alone. She could have done that and if any family member asked she could have said that she put it up because she did not want people hitting on her. But I know that maybe she has her reasons and that maybe she does love me. Recently she quickly had to hide that she was on Skype with me. She wanted to hide me from her family. I understand but I just wonder when I will no longer be a secret in her life. I am going to follow my heart and love her. I will ignore my brain, because I gave her my heart and trust and I intend to keep my promise to her. She will be my wife and I have to understand that she does not have the same freedom that I have here in the states. I'm not going to mess this up. I love her and for the first time in my life I will follow through. I am scared, but it is scary to fall in love. I am so scared of falling. I have been in real love once before. This will be my second time in love with someone. The first person that I was in love with was never going to pan out, because he was married. It was a doomed love affair. There is no reason for this not to work out unless, I mess it up. She will be my wife and I want to be with her forever. The reason that I don't want to talk to my friends about this is because, I want to deal with our issues between us. I will no longer involve others in my relationship. People may read this blog but very few people ever comment so, I don't feel like I am betraying her, because I am truly anonymous. I do not want to talk to her about this because we just got over the ex, who I still believe that she has feelings for, may even be in love with her. She is with me and I will just let it go like I said that I would. So, I do not want to talk to her about this with her because I seem to be the one that has issues and am messing things up. She is easy going. I am the one that is sabotaging this with my jealousy issues and weight insecurities. I hope that when I lose this weight, I will feel more secure. She never complained about my weight, she complains about hers. I honestly can't wait to touch her teddy bear like body. She makes me feel good and I keep making myself feel bad. I sometimes wonder why she is attracted to me when all the other women in her life seem to be thin or slightly thick like all of those women on her fb friends list. I was the biggest one on her fb list. I hope to lose a nice amount of weight by the time that we finally meet. 60 pound will be enough to make me feel good about myself and to feel sexy enough for her. I had a flu shot and my arm still hurts and is swollen at the site. This has nothing to do with my insecurities but it has been hurting for over a week now. Just felt like mentioning that.
This will be a short entry. I apologize ahead of time for not being able to give a full review. Since I am no longer drinking coffee. I may drink only one cup a day. I was up studying then I did not fully recuperate from the serious lack of sleep, which caused me to be exhausted today. I was in class struggling to stay awake. I think that I may have fallen asleep a few times. We were discussing medication math and about some of the medication errors and what an LPN was allowed to do and we also covered the fact that addiction was a problem. We mostly focused on distribution and error prevention and on some of the new technology that is out there now to help avoid the medication errors. It seems that even with this new technology, there are still too many errors. Of course when that error is someone that you know or love, it's one too many. I am not a nurse yet but I can see that complacency may be an issue and nurses having mini battles with each other. I do see cliques and it can get a little high school at times. Back to what happened in class. After the power point presentation. One half was to stay in the class and do math. We were unsupervised and talked instead. The other half went upstairs to the lab and the Prof. discussed the different modes of medication administration and supplies. I have seen a med cart before so it was no aha moment. Then someone asked about the new computerized med carts. Then I turned and saw one so pretty. The computer was on top and the individual draws were on the bottom. I wanted to touch that bad boy so bad. She says the in the hospital, when you enter the patients name, their draw pulls out with their meds. That seemed so cool. She said that later we would be able to see it. I wanted to use it then and there, but I will wait. I use to think that I wanted to start of with nursing and then finish with pharmacy, but I seem to love this so much. I think that the reason that I was able to stay up so long studying is because I love this so much. As difficult as some geriatric patients can be, I have a connection with the elderly, I genuinely like them. I know as a CNA the relationship was strained due to the bitter racist and violence that I had to endure, but there were good moments. I just think that we needed more CNAs and maybe one more nurse. Good ones, not just bodies, that knew how to do the work, but lacked heart. One girl was bold enough to come up to the lab while the last group was up there to interrupt the Prof. to ask if they could leave. Mind you it was the same girl that is really late every day and she rolled her eyes at one of the Prof., who will be teaching the higher level classes, when she tried to tell her that being late for exam day will cost her to lose valuable minutes. We do have way more time then we need to complete the exam. You either know it or not, but I know that some people have some disabilities that causes them to need more time, so I get it. She told the girl no and had a look on her face, like are you serious right now. She continued to show us a few more things and then we went home. I am not going to study but tomorrow I will crack open the books and get back to work. I'm going to do the math for a while then start studying the book.
This was my first exam of the semester. I do not think that I am able to go into details so I won't I would love tell you what was on that exam. Ok that being said. The reason that I think that I can't discuss it is because when I was done, we were allowed to leave for a break and the Prof. told me and everyone that left that we are not allowed to discuss the exam. Now I see why I have had such a hard time finding out what to expect from nursing school. I literally felt like there would be dire consequences for disobeying her rules. That being said. I will discuss it but I just won't go into details, I think that it's allowed. I studied like a psycho. I studied like it was the N-CLEX. I was so ready or so I thought. I went back and rewrote notes on what I had read. I studied acronyms. I was so ready I studied body structures and how to spell them. I studied different skin conditions. I was so ready. I decided to take a nap and catch up on the math. I woke up a little after 9 am and went to bed a little after 5 am. I could not get up. I went to school looking like a lunatic. My outfit was horrible. I washed my daughter's school clothes by hand to avoid going to the laundromat. I washed my underwear and socks and hung them up to dry. Then I drop my daughter off at school. Then head straight to school. I tried to study in traffic. I turned down the radio to not lose what I had stored in my short term memory. Usher was on I actually did want to hear that interview. After half an hour of driving the traffic was gone. I drove straight to school. I was so confused and stuck on saving the material that I did not realize that I was an hour early for school. So after I sat there for 10 minutes and realized this, I went to my car and got my notes. I figured that I would attempt to store some of the math. I was suppose to finish chapter 9. I am still on 5, but it was mostly review of conversions. Thank goodness. Those remedial classes came in handy. I was able to grasp the material rather easily. For some reason I focused on the conversion for the exact thing that was on the test. I almost started to write specifics. Trust me I would love to tell you everything, but I have to respect the school rules. I must also say that mean blonde was nice today. It made her seem cuter. She is kinda cute. I think I like strong women. One of my Prof. is kinda hot too. I scheduled to to the lab today at 9 am not realizing that I could still do it. I told her that my doc appt. got canceled and that I wanted to reschedule. She was nice about it. I've never been with a white woman before not that I have that chance now but, she is cute. I love my girl but we can look. Ok so I know that I must have looked nuts. I am happy that I studied instead of doing the lab anyway. So after class I go to the doctor to get the medical stuff out of the way. I will be back. I hate a laptop sometimes. I just wrote something that took quite some time and my laptop deleted it. Ok I had to get some blood work for school and also some shots. I spoke to the doctor and explained that I had no insurance for a while. She told me to cut back on the caffeine. My diastolic was a bit high. I have had six cups of coffee and only slept 2 hours in a 24 hour period. I also had my first exam which I think that I bombed. The questions were very critical thinking and I am someone who takes orders. I was ready to answer facts that are ob
I have no choice but to accept that she is going to be in her exes life. I said that I wanted someone who would love me unconditionally. I realize now that I can't expect someone to do what I am not willing to do. I have no idea how I'm going to navigate this. I have to undo some of my reckless behavior. I am going to attempt to keep this woman in my life. I really truly love her. She is amazing and I want to be happy with someone. I thought that I could just get over it because it was new, but she is worth everything that I can give. I just don't know what to do when I dislike or disagree with some of her decisions or actions or whatever. Do I just do whatever she wants. I suppose I should be with someone who would not hurt me and not accept less. So far she has not hurt me and whatever is not or is going on with her ex or exes, I will just accept. I'm going to end up being a doormat. I don't know what to do, it usually speak my mind and I don't put up with things that I do not like without a fight. Unfortunately I think that I am in real love and that renders me vulnerable and defenseless. This is going to be completely new territory for me. I have no idea how this will go. I hope things go well. I love her so much.
Well early this morning me and my girlfriend got into it a bit. Yes, from all the way from here to there. I really care about her, but as time goes on it is starting to seem as if we are not meant to be together. I saw this clip for this upcoming movie and I cried because that is what I want. I want that unconditional love. Someone who will love me no matter what. I am not nearly perfect. I have issues. I just want to be with someone that is all mine. I guess that is too much. It is already starting to hurt. Ok I had to get the tears out of the way. In that movie that woman loved him and nothing made her love falter in anyway. Every now and then some people are lucky enough to love someone completely and meet someone who can love them the same. I know that it does not happen often, those people must be the luckiest people in the world. I'm not sure why I am not that lucky, that is the true lottery winning. Those are the odds that make people throw their hands in the air and think, I'm not going to win that prize. I guess I should start from the beginning. I talked about the ex-girlfriend. Well for some reason I was bored and started messing with her about the ex-girlfriend. I already knew that she remained friends with her exes, she told me this in the beginning. I was not 100 percent ok with it, but it was what it was. There was something about the way that she made that comment to me about this one. When she immediately defended how she looked. There was something there. As much as I tried to let it go. I knew that there was something more to this ex. You know that feeling that you get. Well I pushed the subject. I don't know why I did it. I guess I wanted to see how far I could push the subject. This morning I pushed her hard, I truly was only joking because I was bored. I know that it was not the right thing to do but I did it. We all have are immature moments I suppose. I pushed her to the point where she felt the need to tell me that she will not stop being friends with her ex on fb and in real life. First she said that she does not see her or talk to her and that she had a bf. Then she says how she is a special person and that she will not stop being friends with her for me. She will not do it. I did not ask her to, but I did ask her if she still had feelings for her and she completely changed the subject. I guess she thinks that I did not notice. She knows that just because I did not bring it up again does not mean that I forgot. What I hear is I am still in love with my ex who has chosen not to be with me and I am not willing to lose her for you, but I am willing to lose you for her. She told me that I was a mean person because I did not see her point about why she would not erase her from her life. I don't usually give people ultimatums and I'm not going to start now, but I definitely do not want to be with someone who still has feelings for their ex. Am I suppose to wait for her to get over her. I told her that I do not stay friends with my exes. I don't see a reason to. I am not friends with exes. I keep my friends and intimate partners separate. I never get them intertwined. I value friendship more than relationships because true friends will be there no matter what. She then told me that she does not want to be with a mean person. She basically told me that she does not want to be with me. I think that she wanted to break up with me. She may do it anyway. Maybe she will go to sleep and wake up and think that she does not want to be with me. It hurts but it just is not meant to be I suppose. In the past I have broken up with good people or not given them a chance. I felt bad at the time because I knew how they felt about me and I just could not stay knowing that I did not feel the same. I love this woman but I think that she is in love with someone else. Some people do remain friends with their exes and it never goes past friendship. That being said, most people continue sleeping with exes, especially when it is fresh. I really don't think that she is sleeping with her, but I don't necessarily think that she does not want to sleep with her. I guess now I will just wait for her to break up with me. I don't do well in relationships anyway. I really thought that we were going to get married and live happily ever after. Sometimes when I am into someone I lose focus and let things that I should pay attention to, I ignore. I guess that it will just be me and my daughter for now. Until she grows up and starts her own life. I use to think that I wanted more. Now I realize that more is just not in the cards for me. I'm not into just hooking up. I tend to get emotionally attached. I can turn my feelings off, but I hate having to think about stds. If something is casual even if you get tested together that person could be hooking up with other people and bam std. I guess I can just stock pile batteries. I feel like Jennifer Aniston. After the heartbreak with Brad, she has never been able to be happy like she was before. I thought that my daughter's father was the one for me. Now that thought actually sickens me for so many other reasons other than him being male. Now 8 years later I thought that I found the one but she obviously is not. I bought some books that I have not had time to read. As soon as I get my RN I may just stop going to school and have time to read them. I may even have time to read some of my school books and truly absorb the material. I do not have one past relationship memory, where I can say I let this one slip away. She says that I am cold. She is right. Growing up was not pleasant. My mom beat the crap out of me daily and crushed my spirits. My father did not care about me at all. My grandmother the one person that truly love me died when I was a little kid. Then I became close with my great aunt and she died. I was bullied and went through some stuff, men touched and tried to do things to me when I was a kid, I have been hurt by friends and exes. I had a baby with a man that made the experience less than pleasant. I've tried to commit suicide a few times. Yes I am cold but life does that to you sometimes. Am I mean no, not really. I go out of my way to help people because I know what it is to be all alone. I tend to limit the people that I care about because I don't like the feeling of intense hurt. When I think about my great aunt the pain is so strong. Me and her became close when I was an adult. I can't even talk about how much it hurt to see her in the vent unit, unable to move. She tried to talk to me but no words came out, it hurt so bad. I just wanted her to be ok again but she dies. She was a good person. I don't have many family members that care about me and the two that did are gone. I always get hurt when I open myself to people. I opened myself to my girlfriend, probably soon to be ex. I'll be ok because we were not together that long and if she had to save me or that ex, I'd be dead. I guess that's what it comes down to. Imagine that you are married to someone and they had a choice you or an ex and they chose the ex. That is not someone that you should marry. Sometimes when I talk to her I pause but it's not for the reason that she thinks. I really do pause when people ask me things because even though an answer should be automatic I don't answer automatically. I remember once she asked me if I was ever interested in a friend of mine. I paused, I don't really know why, but I never could even be attracted to that friend. I really do not ever want to be with my friends in any romantic way, ever. I was with a friend once, but it was not because I was attracted to the person, it was a stupid reason. I was young and did quite a few questionable things. I did too many things just to do it. I did not grow up in a household where my mother hugged and kissed me and said I love you. I did not grow up in a household where my stepfather did that either. I don't get attached to people. I don't even feel comfortable with physical contact. I am when I am with a partner and with my daughter, but sometimes I prefer not to be touched. She does not want to get hurt by me but I am the last person that she has to worry about hurting her. I love her and when I love someone it is unconditional. I've loved very few people and the relationships broke down due to no part of mine. They preferred to be with other people. I am not so great at sharing. I guess she is right about me being selfish. If I'm yours, I expect to be your one and only as well.
I know that I have insecurities because of my weight, lack of education, lack of employment, and a few other things. Some of them I am working on, but I think that there is more going on though. I think that perhaps I am a little depressed and should get real help. I do go to therapy, and she has noted my sadness at times, but I will never admit to being depressed. I have been depressed since I can remember. I just wanted out of this difficult life. I just felt that I am just another person existing for a count. I wanted to live, thrive. I have no idea how. I am not sad all the time. There are times when I am in the moment and happy. Then there are those days when I'm in a Eyore state of mind. Some days I'm like Pooh. It is still that time of month and for like 9 days out of the month I have to fight the sadness. There are interactions that I have with people that make it better. I felt good to lose 20 pounds and luckily I have kept it off. I still have a lot more to do. I use to be really fit and beautiful. I still was unhappy and tried to commit suicide. I never got help. I'm glad that I did not die, I don't want to commit suicide anymore. I push those thought and feelings away, when they do come. I also expel people from my life that cause me to feel so low that I want to end it. Unfortunately I don't have many people in my life now. My New Year's Resolution was to be more optimistic. Which I have done. I have accomplished a lot of the things that I have said that I would. The year is not done and I have just a few more things to resolve in my life. I did not care if I ever found love because I know that with love comes unbearable pain. Which I wanted to avoid at all cost. Now that I somehow fell in love. I know understand why they say fall. Some of us don't want it after an experience of emotional destruction by someone that should have been the last person to cause such agony. I'm not so great in the love department and that is fine. I'm going to give it a go with this woman but after her I am completely done. I will live out my life with a few pets or something. Maybe not. I love to read. I will read every and anything. I hope that I don't end up hurt. It would truly blow chunks. Something about West Indian women that some people are weak to resist. Ok I don't want to talk about my girl. She is not really why I am sad although it would seem that way. It really is all me. Something is wrong with me and I know what it is. I have been dealing with it since I was a kid. Just when I was ready to throw in the towel I became pregnant. Life is funny that way. I am lucky in so many ways. I don't have a whole lot but I have enough. Honestly I almost have everything that I want. I just have to finish school and that will complete my wants. My girlfriend who is practically my fiance is not a guarantee. I have yet to see a happy love story to believe that it is possible for me. I have no intention of doing anything to destroy us, but she is young and I think that she may turn into a butterfly and fly away. To be completely honest I am ok with that. I want her to be happy and if it is with someone else that is fine. I don't mean to be pessimistic but she is 25. I think that there is still some growing into your own to do at that age. I could just be me, preparing for the worst.
Today started out ok. I was able to take the day of to study which I did. Then I started talking to my girl. Things seemed cool in the beginning. I knew that she was busy so I did try to end the conversation but we ended up talking for hours. I try not to talk to her unless she calls me to avoid bothering her so much. I allowed her to access my computer from a remote location and I knew that it would cause problems. The thing is there are parts of me that I don't share with the people that I know. Me and her are in a relationship, we don't have to know everything about each other. There are things that are separate. Well she wanted to open thing that I did not want her to. Like this site. My blog is on here. She does not know a whole lot about things that I have been through and I don't think that she needs to, they are things that I feel embarrassed about. I share those things on here because that's what this is for. I hate to keep things bottled up. It helps for me to let it out in some way and this is the only way. My therapist does not even know some of the things that I write here. She does know a lot though, I do want to work through some of my issues. She was not happy that I tried to keep her out, but why does she not respect the fact that there are parts of me that I don't want exposed yet. I just want her to give me some time. At first she said that she understood, but I don't think that she does. I want to fix something then I can share them with her. So then things seemed ok. Then I wen to pick up my daughter and I forgot that I left her alone with the PC. I don't know if she looked at anything that I did not want her to see. I have to just trust her. Then she let me see hers but the connection was choppy and it was not much fun because I could not do much because we were on Skype. I was on Skype to but I was on my phone so it was easier for her to navigate. She goes on her fb and I wanted to get out as soon as I was in it. I told her that but she stayed on and scrolled down. She is telling me how she did not know that one or that one. Then she goes down to her ex girlfriend. I don't say anything. So she adds how she is not ugly. I did not say anything. She had a nice shape but I did not personally find her attractive. That was besides the point. The point was the fact that she was on her Facebook and she is telling me how her girlfriend looks good. She is her ex but she might as well have been her girlfriend the way that she was talking about her. She even lingered on her picture. I tried not to be jealous but I think that she still likes her. It does not matter what she said. I know that she stays friends with her exes but I don't and don't really see the reason to. I just stay silent. She probably still talks to her. I don't know if they live near each other or how close they are or were. I know that she did love her. Something like that does not just fade away that easily. Sometimes I think that I love my girlfriend, but I think that I need to protect my heart and that means that I am going to do what I accuse her of and put up that wall. For now I think that I will not allow myself to just fall blindly in love with her. I don't have the right to tell her to stop talking to people just because she has feelings for them or vice versa. I don't like trying to control people, because I don't like being controlled. I am in such a weird position. I don't want to not be with her because I care for her, but what parts of the issues I have are in my head or real. Long distance relationships are very hard, especially when I have to deal with these stupid insecurities. I think that I said something that upset her because when we said bye it was not like all kisssy kiss. It was just bye. I think that she blames me for her not completing her assignments. I have to do mine anyway. Maybe I will just tell her that I have to study and limit our conversations to no more than 15 minutes a day. I just don't know what to do. At least this way she can't say that I am the reason that she does not do well this semester. I am not going to be responsible for that one. Me and her have both messed up. She thinks that she has to talk to me for me to not catch a hissy fit and I just really enjoy talking to her and looking at her. She is very appealing to the eyes. Especially to femmes. She is tall and strong and has a nice body. She wants to be all fit which is cool, but it's nice to have something soft to cuddle up to. I do understand that being healthy is important so I don't care either way. I want to get in shape too. I also don't want to lose her and the reason be because it seems that I brushed her off. I don't know what to do anymore. I thought things were going good then she just got an attitude near the end of the conversation,saying that her day was wasted. I guess talking to me is a waste. I'm going to try not to internalize everything. Today I asked her to Skype because I was mad that my doctor canceled my appointment and did not call me but had me get up early and go there for them to change it. I chose another doctor. I made appointments for every doctor. I will be getting a full work up and I will attempt to get healthy. Why are relationships this hard. Why can't I just be happy in love. I probably should not have asked her to Skype, it was a moment of weakness. Next time I feel like I need a friend I will just come on here and write. No one gets me. I feel so alone. I guess things are just getting harder and people are just trying to survive and they don't want other people's drama. I get it. I use to be able to go out and have a good time. Or read a good book. Or talk to my girlfriend. I should just put all this energy in school and getting healthy. I love my girl but her moods are tiring. I can't make her happy no matter what I try to do so whatever. I have my own crap that I need to sort out. I am still insecure about us but I can no longer continue feel like this. I really do try but there is but so much I can do being so far away. If things work out they do if they don't because she still wants her ex then so be it. I'm starting to not care either way. I'm not even stopping her. If she thinks that ugly troll is so sexy then she can do whatever she wants with her. I don't need to be worried about any of this. I had a plan before I met her and I just need to keep following my dream of having a respectable career and spending lots of money. Insecure for what!!!!
There was a mock exam today. Some of the answers we were not suppose to be able to answer. So on this day I knew that there would be a mock exam. I somehow got stuck on finding that second parking lot. I would have been on time but I was hell bent on finding it. I passed it because it is on a one way street then I found it. Making me like 14 minutes late. It was a bit weird because when I walked in people had their student ids on their desk and scantrons. I knew I messed up. Especially since I did not have to park there. So I sit down, the girl next to me says she said to sit over there. I get up and move and so I moved to the left in the last row. I get the paper and I do the test. I thought that I knew some of the answers but it was not going to be graded so I really did not put much effort into it. I did pay attention to the questions though. I'm a little good at remembering questions from exam. I don't know why it's not like I run home and try to find out if I was right. I have little quirks. Then we go over some of the questions. One of them they changed the answer which I thought was such bs. They asked what is subjective. That is all that they asked no other comment about it. I put down pain and did not pay attention to the one that was itching next. Itching is subjective, but I did not pay full attention. The other choice was snoring and some other stuff that you could visually see. Then after so many people were confused about how itching was subjective she literally changes the entire answer. I was not happy about that. People in the class kept saying that you can see them scratch. That was not the question. It clearly stated itching. Then we go over the math. I was only wrong on one. I was at a loss when it came to that one. The doctor ordered an amount and I only had like 70/15. I had no idea. The professor does the problem and the answer that she got was wrong. One girl was adamant that the answer was wrong. The professor kept her cool. There were two of them in there. The other one just sat there and did not say anything. One of the students goes to the board and solves the problem. I am thinking in my head, shouldn't there be an answer sheet for these problems? That did not instill much confidence in me and she is a Nurse Practitioner. Then she tells us that we have to read and we practice physical assessment. We practiced the one alert orientated times 3. We introduced ourselves to our partner and asked Do you know the date, time and where you are. Then we switched roles. Then class was over.
Today was a bit better. I told my girlfriend about the fact that people read my blog. I knew that when I told her that she would say that she wanted to be able to read my blogs. She thinks that I tell her everything and I tell her most things. She does not really want to listen to me talk so much, so why would she want to read my blog. She does not really care that much about my school. She has her own to deal with. I sometimes want to ask her about what her classes are like, but she does not want to share the experiences with me. She tell me some blanket statement and is done. She makes it seem like it is not interesting but I would like to know about how it makes her feel. I want to know what she does in class and what it is like. I can not understand what she does because I am not into technology that much. It is over my head. I know how to use a computer enough but not java and stuff. I can't give her this. This is where I can pour my heart out with no consequences. No one knows me personally here. I feel a weight lifted sometimes, when I write. It is that stupid time of the month again and I hate what it does to my emotions. I am sitting here typing and crying because I want her here with me so bad. I'm listening to Jessie J and all I can think about is her. I think maybe I have to many pics of her. I actually made a collage of pics that she sent me and it is on the wall on my desk. I think of her of course. I have heard from her this morning. It is not enough. But I am going to just study. She is busy she has to go to work then to school. I have to give her a break. It is hard but not that bad. I think that she spoiled me in the summer and I'm hooked. Slowly I have to wean off of her. When I think of her I just feel something so intense, it is like butterflies then goes other places. We Skype and sometimes she just makes me laugh. One of the funniest things that she did was dance for me. She so did not dance like what I would thought. It is weird to think of her and just smile. Sometimes she looks at me a certain way then laughs and I laugh too. She can be so playful and silly. I like that about her. I love her so much. I don't know what the future holds and I am trying to be more optimistic this time. One funny thing about her to is that fact that the way that she takes pics makes her look like a different person. She has this maturity and child like personality. It makes her so interesting. Sometimes I have no idea who I will deal with that day. I know that things are hard for her sometimes and she can just throw all her worries away and enjoy the day. I thought of proposing to her but then I did not know what kind of ring she would like. I think that we should wait before we think about marriage. She is young and I don't want to feel like I'm taking something from her. I have no idea what it means to be somebody's wife and neither does she. I still don't think that I could make her happy. In the beginning I could probably buy her gifts, but after she is done with school, she can do those things too. I want to know how to keep her love alive. I don't know how not to mess things up. I just wish I knew what it was that tore people apart. I want to do everything I can to stay with her, but I don't want her to be with me if she does not want to. People change as they mature. The person that you are in your 20s is usually very different than the person in your 30s. We are not that far in age, but I have more life experiences because I'm a mom. The moment I became a mother, everything changes. It was as if something hidden in my heart revealed itself and blossomed. I love my daughter so much. I never knew love like that. It was so intense. I would be here all day writing about my experience as a mother. If I have a bad dream about her. I hold her tight. My body helped give her physical life but her life gave me purpose, but it also took something from me and gave it to her tying her to me in a way that is indescribable. I hate to even say this but I think that the reason that the Sandy Hook disaster was felt by every living soul was because of that connection that we parents have with our children. People sent toys but we all knew that there was nothing to fill the void that that monster put in people's lives. I don't want to talk about that. That was a true boogy man come to life. Ok that is all for today. I will have to write the blog for my lab. I don't want to keep feeling this feeling for my woman. We have not been together that long but we have experienced a lot together. I have no idea what she would think if she read these. I promised her that I would not lie to her so I will just tell her that this is just something for me. It is in a way my therapy. There are going to be some parts of my life that I can't let her visit. I am sure the same thing goes for her. It's just that I let her get away with keeping me at a distance. I don't push her and when I do, I don't feel good about it because, I know that it does not make her feel good. I don't know how I know but I do. She wants me to give her me 100 percent while she gives me 50 and then tells me that she tells me everything, which is untrue and she knows it. We are in different countries but I don't think that she realizes that we are not that different. Sometimes I think that she thinks that I have things easier. It's not that I keep things from her, you can't give someone all of you right off the bat. I have to have some mystery. OK going to study now.
This chapter that was due to be read was 59 pages. I read 25 of them. I plan to finish the rest today. The lecture is the same thing. They go over the topics of the required chapter and answered any questions people may have. Even if certain people ask dumb questions in my opinion, just so the professor can know who they are. Some questions are good, but these 4 women ask stupid question all the time, even in lab. One lady that sat next to me kept looking at my notes and just kept staring. It made me uncomfortable. Then this woman next to me showed me something and she says what's that. I'm like, in my head, personal space ( curse word). I hated sitting next to her, I was 5 minutes late so I had no choice it was the door closest to the door. I had to keep peeing because I have been running on coffee, for the past few days. I'll try to get to bed no later than 12 am so that I can be semi well rested. As she is going through the chapters, I write the necessary notes. Then she gets to the part on certain anatomy parts and she says that we don't need it. I'm like hold on wait a minute. I raise my hand when she is done. I ask in the future how will I know that I should not read certain parts of the chapter. She says that it is in the syllabus. I printed the syllabus but I mostly stuck to the calendar. Some people say yes it is in the syllabus. Those full of lies idiots. I look in the syllabus, there is no subject topic list, only for some chapters, there was definitely not one for this long chapter. I like the woman next to me she is cool. I was going to ask her for her number but my phone is off so I did not ask her. I have internet and could Skype with her so that we can study. I don't know. We have lab tomorrow. I will see how things go. The welfare phone that I have does not have very good reception. She is also a grant student. We both really want to find a job. We went over that subject pretty quickly and we were able to cover everything in one class. I was a bit skeptical when I saw so many pages. It was physical assessment from head to toe. I had to study but I also had to go to a back to school night for my daughter. It was long and I did not want to be idle. Luckily I took pictures of some notes that they had in lab last week and I reviewed it while they gave these speeches about how they were able to continue providing excellent education to our children with so many budget cuts. I only saw one black employee there tonight. That one black woman was my daughter's teacher. I have come to accept that perhaps black people do not want to be teacher (not). I had teachers of many races but I remember there being more black teachers. I don't know. Many of the employees had strong accents and the speeches were given in English and Spanish. So it was drawn out. I just would have liked to see a high quality diverse staff. The school is performing really well so I should just get over it I suppose.
I hate that I waited to write this one. So now I have to go off of memory that is a week old. Unfortunately for me I remember too much of it, because it was not a good lab day. I went into lab thinking that I was prepared. I go in and then we are getting ready to split up. One group will go to the lab and another group will do a math quiz. The quiz is just practice only the exams count for anything. I was on my way until my grant worker calls me in to ask me if I have received my books. I talk to her for about 5 minutes. Then I go to the lab. The woman who works there is an overweight blonde lady with a serious attitude problem. She looks at me and ask me if I am late. I tell her no, that I talked to my grant worker. She did not seem happy about that. She told me to go back to the class. The weird thing about it, was that the professor for the lab almost seemed intimidated by her. She is intimidating I will not lie about that. She is not scary because I have dealt with her type before. It was just a surprise because the other people that I have interacted with through out the process have all been quite nice with a deep passion for the nursing field. So I go back downstairs to do the math quiz. I realize after seeing the quiz that I have a lot of work to do, in terms of the math. I should have bought my math book, and regular book. I also forgot to bring my watch. After the quiz I go upstairs to work in the lab. She says too many people. Due to the tone of her voice a few of us were on our way out. She says no stay. She talks to us like she is superior to us. Oh well it is not a big deal. So we have to partner up with someone. It was just not my day. I get partnered up with this woman that will not stop talking. She talks about her kid and what is wrong with her medically. She takes up time just hearing her voice heard. I think that it is some personality disorder. I had to take her blood pressure and I could not figure out which way to turn the dial thing. I should have turned in clock wise but I kept turning it counter clockwise. Then I could not hear the first systolic sound. She kept asking asinine questions. It was so annoying. I will never partner up with that irritating person again. The professor comes to me and notices that I keep messing up. The air kept on being released. I was not embarrassed because it was my first time taking a blood pressure. Some people do it at work. My job only had the electric one. The rule is to learn the manual one first. It is an art. I have to make sure to not turn the dial too fast and pay close attention to the dial. I then did the apical ( heart beat) that was easier and I was done by one. It is easier to take your hand and move it up and down to help with the count when there is noise around, I was off by 1. I will do better next time. I am not able to sign up for the lab because the woman in charge the blonde lady. She was busy and we were unable to use the lab for over 3 weeks. Ok so after that we went back downstairs and we went over the quiz. It was not so bad. I have an idea of what I have to study and then we practiced more of the blood pressure. I sometimes forget where the radial pulse is. Luckily for me my partner in the lecture class was familiar with radial pulse and blood pressures. She told me that where my thumb is is my radial pulse. She also helped me with the dial for the blood pressure cuff. It was helpful to continue practicing in the lab class. Then we went home.
I know that I still owe my last weeks lab blog. I will do that tomorrow. Today will be about my insecurities. I am in a relationship with a woman that I feel strongly for. I am not in love yet but I feel very strongly for her. Well in the begriming I felt like she really liked me and everything was ok. Recently we have been having some problems. I don't want to lose her but I just don't know what to say or do anymore. She confuses me to no end. I try to make her happy by doing what she wants. I don't mind, I like pleasing my partner, I am perfectly okay with being submissive to her. Well she then tells me to stop trying to please her. I guess that it will make it boring. I just don't know what to do. We have the same arguments or discussions over again, because I know that she is not being honest with me. I don't think that she wants to talk to me as often as we speak. I know that I can be needy. I offered to not call her so much, I talk more than the average person. People who know me say that no one talks as much as me. I am trying so hard to keep her. I think that she feels strongly for me to. She said that she loved me, but I think that both of us thought that it was love because the feelings were so raw in the begriming. I don't think that she is attracted to me. I don't know if it's all in my head or not. She does tell me things like good morning beautiful but, I don't think that she means it. It is a long distance relationship so it is harder to tell. She does not look at me like she did in the begriming. She says that I am trying to find reasons to break up. Truth is I want her so bad. I really do want to spend the rest of my life with her. But so many things are going on. I am not studying how I should because I am so obsessed with her. She has all these girls on her friends list and they are not as big as I am. All the women on her page or thick or skinny. I'm overweight. I did like some females pictures on fb, but it is not because I found them attractive like I wanted to date them. I just liked the pic. However, when she likes someone's pic, I think that she finds them attractive. I don't know what is wrong with me. I don't even think that anyone can help me. I don't know how to feel like I'm enough. I don't even want to be enough. I want her to think that I am the most beautiful woman that she knows. I think that she is the most beautiful woman that I know. I think of her all the time. I think that she is so attractive. I think that she can get a woman that is more of what she likes. Then I think that if she did not want me why would she be with me. I can not answer that. I know that it's all in my head so I pretend to be fine. But she is on fb liking other females pics before she even calls me. I thought that it would be good for us to take a break, but I don't know what she was thinking, because she keeps her feelings from me sometimes. I guess to be the tough one. I am so confused and I know that she is sick of talking about it so I don't know who to turn to. I do see a counselor, but I don't think that she can help me. I just feel like crying lately. Every time she likes another woman's pic I feel hurt. I know that my feelings are irrational so I try to hide it as best as I can. I don't want to seem like a crazy jealous woman that does not trust her. She is right though. Sometimes I want to end things with her because I don't think that I am who she wants or could be happy with. How long can I hide my insecurities. I use to not care so much and now that I do it is too much. The last person I was with I did the same thing. I tried so hard for her to notice me. I never felt like I was good enough. People around me kept saying yuck, you are feeling some type of way for her. I now look at her pics and ask myself what was I thinking. I am the one that ended the fake relationship. I realize that what they were saying was so true. My woman now is not unattractive at all. She is strong and tall in just a little soft, which I like. I plan on going on a diet and exercising more to get more toned. I am losing a little weight but that will not help. I have no job, I'm on welfare, and I want to do all these things for her. She has not asked for anything, I just like to spoil the person that I am with. I want to give her everything that I can. I even want to carry her baby one day. Ok I do love her. I remember when she told me that I was beautiful and I tried to get her to tell me like 3 times. Finally she said. I just told you that you were beautiful. That made me feel a little bad too. I am going to lose her if I don't find some way to deal with this. I never felt like this when I dated men. I felt that they truly loved me when they said it. With females I feel so inadequate. I guess because I keep seeing all these other women that are so much hotter than me. They have jobs and some don't have kids so they have more freedom. I do have a child so I do not have as much freedom. She has taken with my daughter well, but I think that it is a lot to ask of her. She is young and does not seem like she is ready to be a mom in any way. It is not really anything that she has done, but she lives at home with her family. She is the baby in a way. I also want to have more children with her. Maybe one or two and I don't know if she wants that. Right now she says no, but I am hoping that she changes her mind. I want so badly to one day carry her baby. I even looked into it. She says that it is boring if I do what she asks, then gets annoyed when I don't do what she ask. Why can't things just be boring and perfect. She wants me to be shaved down there. But when I shave I get bumps and that is not a good look. So I shaved and now had to deal with bumps. They went away but she will think that it is an STD. I have to go to a doc before she comes to get all the test run. Scary. I know that I should have anyway. I should never have slept with the person that I was with before, but I have cloudy judgment when I am into someone. I have a pimple down there and I hope that it's nothing. If it is something I will tell her and deal with the consequences later. Is it weird that I don't care either way. I love her unconditionally. I would be with her regardless of any diseases, but I don't think that she feels the same way. That is understandable. We have not been together long enough for that. Sometimes I want to go back to not caring what someone thinks of me and not feeling like this. I thought that I wanted to find love but for some reason me being gay has stronger emotions. I don't understand why, I feel more and I don't like it. It is harder. I had a plan and I kinda want to go back to that. I don't know what she wants from me anymore. I don't think that I can maker her happy and I want to make her happy. Just like when I see toys that my daughter wanted seriously discounted and I bought them for her. I could have hid them until Christmas but I wanted to make her happy then and now. She was thrilled. I live to make people that I love happy, it makes me feel good. So imagine how I feel when I can't make someone that I love happy. I am going to keep going to counseling to sort this out. I hope that she can help me. I love her so much and it would be so (curse word) if I could not be with her. I have not been in a serious relationship in so long, maybe I forgot what to do. I am so lost right now. I want her to make me feel ways about myself that I should already feel. She should not have to spend her time validating my inner and outer beauty. I should not be jealous over her doing the same thing that I am doing. I almost want to delete my fb account or delete her as a friend and have her block me to avoid me acting so darn irrational. If I did ask her to I would look like a nut so I keep it in. I'm determined not to lose her. I will keep my mouth shut and keep it to myself. Hopefully writing will help me not feel so filled with insecurities.
Today was interesting. Some people went by the syllabus and studied the wrong thing. I have to continue studying and catch up on the math. I will be able to do that this week if I stay focused. Me and my girlfriend do not talk as often so that we can focus on our studies, so I should be able to do it. I sat at the end today and had to pee so many times. I am going to cut out all sugary drinks and stick to coffee and water. I hope that helps. I also plan to find a way to work out. I have to do these things. So I have to write notes for 3 chapters this week and read 3. I have to read 2 to catch up and 3 to be prepared for Monday. I hate playing catch up but my schedule is not too hectic so it is possible. My girlfriend has to go to school soon, so I will send her a message take a nap then get the kids and make something very simple so that I can study what I have to. I am hoping to do 2 chapters in the math. I am currently on chapter 5. I have to be done with 9 chapters in 2 weeks. I plan on doing no less than 2. If I have a chance I will do 3. I will write the notes for the 43 pages and read a chapter in the book. I started the Education one so I will attempt to do that today. I should have done that yesterday. I will also attempt to write the notes for it and use all the other resources that are at my disposal to practice this new found knowledge. I say attempt because what I do not finish today I will definitely do tomorrow. Then I should finish the required math by Thursday and be caught up with notes written and practice online material by Sunday. I will go to church on Sunday cook and then study until I can not longer mentally function. I'm not too behind, so it should not be that hard. I wanted to start a study group but I don't know. Maybe a few days before the test I will ask these two girls that live near by the school. I'll see. Even if we just give a few hours a week. One of the girls her cousin or sister completed the program. I personally do not know anyone that has completed the program. I know people who have completed LPN programs but not this one and most of them went to those for profit, fly by night schools. I am not interested in that. Ok I will write about my lab experience tomorrow and I will let you know home much I have completed.
Today I was late. Something that I have been dreading. I was not feeling well and had to use the bathroom which took about 15 min, TMI I know. It was raining pretty hard so I could not drive my usual speed. Once the car went up in the rain, I slowed down. Then I made a wrong turn and was late to class. She understood that the weather was bad and I got a pass. As soon as I sat down they started on the vital signs. We went over what they meant. I think that she was impressed that we were on point with it. We were not going back in the book or anything. Some of the women in the class take vital signs at work. I only took temperature at my job so blood pressure, respiratory, and pulse ox was all new for me. So we partner up and start the blood pressure practice. The girl that I partnered up with had done vitals before. She showed me the proper position of putting on the cuff. I thought that because I am overweight that the cuff would not fit, but it did. It was so cool I really heard when it started again and when the beat stopped. I did it. Reading it is still troublesome. I bl
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